The Difference Between Loving Someone And Being In Love

This is a great article about how it's supposed to feel when you fall in love, as opposed to when you love someone. I'm in agreement with the writer; one involves a choice and the other doesn't. When I fall in love, I have no control over my feelings. My heart dictates how I feel, and even if I wanted to shut it down, I can't!  When I love someone, it's a totally different feeling. I can choose who I want to love and who I don't. Just wondering does everyone feel this way?  http://elitedai.ly/15JoUuE